Who is Ms Construed?
Well, being on my website, it should already be pretty apparent that I consider myself a Goddess. But what does that really mean?
In short, I’m a sex worker and most of my work and content revolves around certain areas in the BDSM umbrella. For those not in the know of that, BDSM stands for “Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/submission, Sadism/masochism” and it is a very wide umbrella of sexual desires.
A “Goddess” is a term used by female-identifying personas that are in the Dominant spectrum. It’s a self-given title, so there’s no hard-fast rule about who can or cannot use it. However, usually, when a Dominant chooses a title, a submissive or slave should respect that choice and use it. Some people are lenient about what they like to be called, but there are also some that are hell-bent on being called correctly. Be careful which toes you step on here.
As a Goddess, I partake in certain fetishes and kinks that I enjoy and gather a loyal, devoted fan base that I lovingly refer to as ‘my boys.’ Most other Female Dommes choose to ‘own’ subs or slaves, but my boys just become daily devoted through conversation and shared enjoyments. Practically nothing is planned between us and the best just happens naturally. This is because not only do they absolutely love and obsess over every facet of me, they also share some of my own fetishes.
My first love in the BDSM world was and always will be Financial Domination (also known as findom). I began as a Financial Dominatrix sometime in 2010 when I actually just stumbled upon the fetish. I honestly don’t even remember the first person I saw or read about, but I do believe it was an article that I read about a popular and sexy as fuck Findomme. For any that don’t know what it means, findom takes on many forms today but is still defined as the fetish where a submissive will give gifts or money to a dominant.
That’s it. Nothing else. Money from slave to Domme. Simple, right? Well………… that’s the core of financial domination, but that’s not always the most fun.
Most dominants are female but there are some male dommes in the fetish as well. However, since I am also a firm believer in Female Supremacy (see more below), I enjoy combining those two things and support only Female FinDoms.
I like to practice delving deeper into certain aspects that have hints of the financial power exchange. First and foremost, I love getting tributes. A tribute is an offering to show that the submissive agrees that I am the more powerful being and thank me for making my presence known in their world. It’s respectful and a widely accepted practice as many bigger Dommes get too many messages daily to look at each and every one. A tribute helps weed through and decide who will get our attention. I (currently) don’t actually find myself buried in messages, and like to respond even to the dumb ones. I need something to sharpen my tongue on, right? However, tributes are still appreciated from my true and loyal fans as again it shows their respect for me and what I do for them. Tributes can be sent as virtual gift cards from sites such as Amazon or Giftrocket or just straight up cash.
Any subs not able to meet me in person will only be able to send virtually. To me, Amazon gift cards are just like money because I find that there are SO many things that can be bought through this website and truly Amazon is changing the face of shopping. Also, as a mother of 3, I don’t always have time to go to the store and shopping online helps me tremendously. So anyone that scoffs about Amazon gift cards, please go kindly fuck yourself. Giftrocket is another site that I enjoy because in a few days I can have the money directly deposited into my bank account. Then I can spend it on anything and everything that I want. There are a few other apps that come and go. Check with me directly to see if I accept a form of payment, but if you mention the PP word, you will be smacked with a virtual block, so don’t try. (I’ll try to write another post about the reason for that later.)
Now any that are interested in seeing or meeting me in person, I am beginning to offer that. Cashmeets are when you can hand me cash in person. Watch my Twitter for when I will be available for a cashmeet and where. Typically I offer them on weekends or any time I travel, especially to conventions. In order to schedule a cashmeet with me, you will need to send a deposit via Amazon or Giftrocket (or just straight up send cash to my PO Box). The reason for the deposit is so that I know I am not wasting my time to wait for you if you happen to chicken out at the meeting. Coming up soon, I will be present at the Exxxotica in Edison, NJ for promotions and fun sexy times. Another post will have more details about that soon.
As mentioned earlier in this post, I do believe in Females as the best gender in the world. (I mean look at Women! How can you not agree?) I identify as a Female Supremacist and love to flaunt the female body, whether my own or another gorgeous woman. This is similar to Female Domination and you will see me use the Femdom tag for most of my content for this reason. However, I find Female Supremacy is more a lifestyle and frame of mind.
I feel that I should be served by the weaker sex, males. I believe that a matriarchal society is smart, beneficial, and appropriate. My dream is to someday own a large plantation style property with male slaves and servants, scantily clad or naked and only wearing a bowtie, that serve Female guests with exquisite things and tend to their every need.
Amazons, pagans, and many others hold this belief as well. To me, it just feels right and I get along with many others that share this ideology. Although it’s also a truly enjoyed aspect in the sex industry. For me, I enjoy many sexual fetishes that have undertones of female supremacy, such as Goddess worship, ass worship, tit worship, hypnosis, facesitting, boot worship, nail fetish, hair fetish, god damn just about any kind of worship my perfect body, and many others. Except for feet, they are a hard limit for me. I’ll talk about that later as well.
I have lots more to write, but I hope you enjoyed reading a little bit about who I am and what I am about. What turns you on the most? Tell me in the comments below.